Friday, October 22, 2010

Don’t rush into Relationships(Dating & Marriage)

Aunty karen shared with us 2 weeks ago the continuation of boys and girls. The best part that touches me is DON’T rush into relationships. That reminds me of Wilson’s message, we want instant noodles, instant this and instant that even instant relationships. When he said that I wonder when can we stop and examine ourselves. I wanted to cry but don’t know why. Also the current divorce rate is so high and people are not even bothering. why??? I wonder whats the reason behind it.You can find statistics in the internet. I have encounter tons of cases where people breakup the first five years of marriage and all of them comes from my seniors from ACU. That’s very embarrassing and some more we are believers. Even my cousin divorce and her main reason for it not ready to get married. One of my acu mates fiancĂ© died after that she plan no to start dating till God gives her one. My foster family in the US who took care of me during summer divorce after 20+ yrs of marriage. That’s the main reason why I don’t want to rush or else I will face the same problem too and i may be worse. I had a classmate who broke up with her 1st bf and she cried the entire class period.

For christian who are single
Lets give ourselves to God
Wait for the right time for our life partner
Mix around and get to know others before deciding(enlarging your network)