Aunty karen shared with us 2 weeks ago the continuation of boys and girls. The best part that touches me is DON’T rush into relationships. That reminds me of Wilson’s message, we want instant noodles, instant this and instant that even instant relationships. When he said that I wonder when can we stop and examine ourselves. I wanted to cry but don’t know why. Also the current divorce rate is so high and people are not even bothering. why??? I wonder whats the reason behind it.You can find statistics in the internet. I have encounter tons of cases where people breakup the first five years of marriage and all of them comes from my seniors from ACU. That’s very embarrassing and some more we are believers. Even my cousin divorce and her main reason for it not ready to get married. One of my acu mates fiancé died after that she plan no to start dating till God gives her one. My foster family in the US who took care of me during summer divorce after 20+ yrs of marriage. That’s the main reason why I don’t want to rush or else I will face the same problem too and i may be worse. I had a classmate who broke up with her 1st bf and she cried the entire class period.
For christian who are single
Lets give ourselves to God
Wait for the right time for our life partner
Mix around and get to know others before deciding(enlarging your network)
Friday, October 22, 2010
Tuesday, September 14, 2010
5 weeks is over & back to BTS
Dang..Back to school.. and back to tons of homework and some ppl like kevin and stanford only sleep for 3 hrs people like me are way lucky sleep at 11... some ppl like mae lyn has to prepare for (graduating students)preaching…most of my friends went to taiwan for their holiday yuck..i didn’t go.. REGRET…today some are still mcc that they are still not awake in class. My lecturer’s and staff went to Taiwan for a conference. I got the form but refuse to go. Most of my friends were away for the 2nd term..
Today got to hear from mark & his group(mama maureen, papa roland and maurice and lukaz plus Anita). They had fun in Tebing tinggi, medan,INA(2 hours from medan city). It was fun they went to hokkien church started by a westerner who went to china to learn hokkien. Everyone had different task.
Today got to hear from mark & his group(mama maureen, papa roland and maurice and lukaz plus Anita). They had fun in Tebing tinggi, medan,INA(2 hours from medan city). It was fun they went to hokkien church started by a westerner who went to china to learn hokkien. Everyone had different task.
Friday, July 23, 2010
Random
Guess wat? i had bad news yesterday.My piano is moving to klang for good. I knew her for a very long time since age of 7. But i havent seen her since beg of 2010 till today. What am i going to do without her from next year? Its gonna be very hard.Its good to move on but its very hard to take it.I will remember her always but will try to go to kl to see her as often as i could. Still,i dont know where i will be next year.
4 more months i am graduating and i have tons to do. trying to finished all(2nd term homework) by sep 15th.i have tons that i am passionate about.but now what comes first?Still i have a passion to have an album.For many years i wanted to be a singer its because malaysia hasnt had an official one.Also i love indian children because first of all majority of the indians are still unsafe and most of them are living below the poverty level meaning dad and mom earning only 900 ringgit to support 7 ppl in the family. A no of indian children are in my church. I have seen improvement in them so far.Pristina for example eventhough she doesnt know the song but she learns to sing along with the congregation.Royson learn to lift up his hands to worship eventhough he is a non believer. Eventhough royson doesnt know my name he still called me a ka(tamil translation for older sister).
All of the children learn to say amen after the prayer.Still they are coming to church every sunday(not 1 time missed) except when they are sick.
They have been my inspiration for 1 yr since they came to this church.Why becuase eventhough the mom dont let them come but they bag their mom to send them to church.
If we didnt had the christmas dinner i dont think they will be in our midst already
4 more months i am graduating and i have tons to do. trying to finished all(2nd term homework) by sep 15th.i have tons that i am passionate about.but now what comes first?Still i have a passion to have an album.For many years i wanted to be a singer its because malaysia hasnt had an official one.Also i love indian children because first of all majority of the indians are still unsafe and most of them are living below the poverty level meaning dad and mom earning only 900 ringgit to support 7 ppl in the family. A no of indian children are in my church. I have seen improvement in them so far.Pristina for example eventhough she doesnt know the song but she learns to sing along with the congregation.Royson learn to lift up his hands to worship eventhough he is a non believer. Eventhough royson doesnt know my name he still called me a ka(tamil translation for older sister).
All of the children learn to say amen after the prayer.Still they are coming to church every sunday(not 1 time missed) except when they are sick.
They have been my inspiration for 1 yr since they came to this church.Why becuase eventhough the mom dont let them come but they bag their mom to send them to church.
If we didnt had the christmas dinner i dont think they will be in our midst already
Thursday, July 15, 2010
It happen yes!!!
Last sunday it was fun after church.We had morning coffee and most of the sundays the adults do the work and majority of the youth is not doing much. Aunty penglim was not around. This time i make the youth wash the plates before doing anything else. Also i ask the boys in my youth group to wipe the table and put them back to the original place.
I wish she was not around more often than i can make the youth do the work instead of the older people
I told aunty lily that children this generation dont know how to do work and depended on kung yan(maid for eng translation)too much & if they dont have a maid they dont know how to do things. Your generation they take initiative, everything also do(fetch bro /sis to school, cook, work, catch wild animals slaughter and eat).
Still I really wish i could go back to the 60s or 70s where we are doing most of the housework instead of being idle.
I wish she was not around more often than i can make the youth do the work instead of the older people
I told aunty lily that children this generation dont know how to do work and depended on kung yan(maid for eng translation)too much & if they dont have a maid they dont know how to do things. Your generation they take initiative, everything also do(fetch bro /sis to school, cook, work, catch wild animals slaughter and eat).
Still I really wish i could go back to the 60s or 70s where we are doing most of the housework instead of being idle.
Tuesday, July 13, 2010
Life is TOO short
Aih i tak tahu (malay translation for dunno)what to say.
Life is too short. believe me that you can go anytime & anywhere.My friends church member died when she is 11 of a terrible fall and she tried her very best to fight for her life but failed.Nobody expect her to be gone so fast.
I just cant understand why people are still hating each other eventhough they
are even from the same country or even they are christians. Cant we just love each other? Is that so hard?Eh come on lar.Does our God our father teach us to hate each other?No.I think this is getting into a serious issue and some dont even realize it. I think we should start loving each other even if we dont like it.
Its the same concept as our family if they are gone thats it lol.
Life is too short. believe me that you can go anytime & anywhere.My friends church member died when she is 11 of a terrible fall and she tried her very best to fight for her life but failed.Nobody expect her to be gone so fast.
I just cant understand why people are still hating each other eventhough they
are even from the same country or even they are christians. Cant we just love each other? Is that so hard?Eh come on lar.Does our God our father teach us to hate each other?No.I think this is getting into a serious issue and some dont even realize it. I think we should start loving each other even if we dont like it.
Its the same concept as our family if they are gone thats it lol.
Friday, July 2, 2010
friday
At last today is friday but the fact is that time flies way too fast.Mark and co are flying to INA for a week for mission trip.They already left. I had a wonderful week of class but too bad its over.I wish i should have gone on one misaion trip too. but I got next yr.I had a good but also week good and also bad. First i went for this class and its called story telling, such a good class and I laugh quite a bit. to be honest its the best class i ever had since i came to BTS in the beg of this year. I definately gonna missed it.The sad thing is I may graduate this year depends if i can get everything done by than.
Today mentoring group was good. We have a good discussion about the Issues that the churches in this world are facing and the BTS had. As i thought about it i thought it is true that christians have a high rate of pride.Also we(pastors who are preaching most of the sundays) are not honest with ourselves.Does God teach us to lie?No.Why cant we just be honest with ourselves and tell the truth?Is that so hard.I think thats already the trend that the churches has adopted for ages.And i think its time to start asking for forgiveness from God.Esp. for preaching on sunday. If you didnt prepare your message just tell them can we pray and thats it.My schoolmate tried that before and nobody make noise.
Thirdly, I've been depressed and emotional the whole month due to many reasons. one of them is that i will missed all my STCM friends already. they have been a blessing to me since the beg june when some of them had class with me together. its sad that they will be gone or they have gone till next year when I see them again.
Today mentoring group was good. We have a good discussion about the Issues that the churches in this world are facing and the BTS had. As i thought about it i thought it is true that christians have a high rate of pride.Also we(pastors who are preaching most of the sundays) are not honest with ourselves.Does God teach us to lie?No.Why cant we just be honest with ourselves and tell the truth?Is that so hard.I think thats already the trend that the churches has adopted for ages.And i think its time to start asking for forgiveness from God.Esp. for preaching on sunday. If you didnt prepare your message just tell them can we pray and thats it.My schoolmate tried that before and nobody make noise.
Thirdly, I've been depressed and emotional the whole month due to many reasons. one of them is that i will missed all my STCM friends already. they have been a blessing to me since the beg june when some of them had class with me together. its sad that they will be gone or they have gone till next year when I see them again.
Saturday, June 26, 2010
Sunday
Today I woke up, first of all I saw the results. US 1-Ghana 2. I was so lost and speechless. Crap how am I going to explain to my friends in the US esp those who sees world cup. If they know I think they are going to be way heart broken. Yes they are. I am already heart broken esp if my dad is the coach. All my fav teams are out.WTF ish. going to have a bad time already in church. Worse still my Korean friend is my classmate. What I am going to tell him IF I met him in BTS on Tuesday. I just had to think hard. Maybe just write a note and say my apology to them I guess. Just realized that I have support USA in everything that’s in the Olympic games still they are the champion.
Korean people, you guys have done smtg great.Not All asian teams can be in the last 16. And not all can be in EPl which is the most competive league in the world.
US people, Sorry for your lost.
Now my heartache has began. eng vs germany. both are good but eng is still better in the sense that they(all but Upson) have played in EPl the hardest league all their lives SO this is ntg to them. And also its a great achievement to be in the last 16 and elected to be in the FWC after SO many years.Dont underestimate eng. one of them score thats it.
Korean people, you guys have done smtg great.Not All asian teams can be in the last 16. And not all can be in EPl which is the most competive league in the world.
US people, Sorry for your lost.
Now my heartache has began. eng vs germany. both are good but eng is still better in the sense that they(all but Upson) have played in EPl the hardest league all their lives SO this is ntg to them. And also its a great achievement to be in the last 16 and elected to be in the FWC after SO many years.Dont underestimate eng. one of them score thats it.
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